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DATING LIKE A BOSS
CHAPTER 10
TEXTING ETIQUETTE IN THE DIGITAL AGE
In Christian dating within the digital age, texting etiquette centers on respect, clear communication, and honoring biblical principles in interactions.
key guidelines and considerations tailored to texting in Christian dating:
1. Be honest, respectful, and warm
Text with honesty and show respect and warmth in your messages. Use good humor and positivity to create a friendly, Christ-centered tone. Avoid negative or unclear messages that may confuse or hurt the other person.
2. Maintain healthy boundaries
Respect boundaries by avoiding late-night texts, which can be intrusive or lead to unwanted thoughts. Establish limits for when and how often texting happens so both parties feel comfortable and respected.
3. Use texting appropriately
Texting is useful for light conversation and coordination but is not the place for serious or complex discussions. Important conversations are best held in person or over a phone call to avoid misunderstandings and to convey empathy clearly.
4. Avoid over-texting and expect reciprocity
Do not overwhelm your texting partner with excessive messages or demand immediate responses. Healthy relationships involve mutual initiation and effort in communication. If one side constantly initiates without response or engagement, it may signal lack of genuine interest.
5.Use proper language and tone
Text clearly with proper spelling and grammar to avoid confusion. Avoid slang, excessive emojis, and capital letters, which can be misinterpreted as yelling. Proper greetings and closings show respect and consideration.
6. Honor purity and respect in content
Avoid explicit or suggestive texts or photos that dishonor yourself or the person you're dating. Christian dating calls for honoring God and each other through purity and wholesome communication.
7.Be mindful of timing and privacy
Respond in a timely manner to show respect but consider the other person's time zones, schedule, and preferences. Don't text in situations where it would be rude or distracting (e.g. during meals or group activities).
8. Focus on real relationship building
Texting should complement face-to-face interaction, not replace it. Texting too much can lead to imagining situations instead of building a real connection. Balance texting with meaningful in-person time.
9. Trust God and keep perspective
Don't resort to control or anxiety over texting patterns. Trust God's guidance in your relationships. Focus on your purpose and calling, and let relationships develop healthily without pressure through texting.
By practicing these principles, Christian daters can communicate effectively and respectfully in the digital age, fostering genuine relationships grounded in love, purity, and mutual respect.
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Relationships should be marked by purity and mutual respect, as outlined in 1 Timothy 5:1-2